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關(guān)心小孩的話語(yǔ)
關(guān)心話語(yǔ)要簡(jiǎn)練說(shuō)
每個(gè)孩子都渴望得到家長(zhǎng)的關(guān)心和愛(ài)撫，但“小大人”意識(shí)又使他常表現(xiàn)出不愿接受的樣子，尤其不喜歡家長(zhǎng)“窮追猛打”式的提問(wèn)和喋喋不休的說(shuō)教。對(duì)于關(guān)心的話，家長(zhǎng)干脆、簡(jiǎn)練的囑咐會(huì)更加有效。
知心話語(yǔ)要含情說(shuō)
家長(zhǎng)放下身段，想和孩子說(shuō)說(shuō)知心話，結(jié)果，卻發(fā)現(xiàn)和孩子的距離越來(lái)越遠(yuǎn)。這是怎么回事呢?其實(shí)，并不奇怪，隨著小家伙的漸漸成長(zhǎng)，您會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，他內(nèi)心的秘密越來(lái)越多了，有時(shí)，甚至用謊言來(lái)搪塞您的關(guān)心。
家長(zhǎng)若想與孩子交心，首先要注意營(yíng)造融洽的氛圍。勸導(dǎo)孩子，也應(yīng)注意方式、方法，比如：“小強(qiáng)，爸爸給你講故事，講爸爸像你這么大時(shí)的淘氣事兒……”就這樣，兩代人或隔代人的交流在不知不覺(jué)中完成了，知心話才能為孩子所接受、理解
開(kāi)心話語(yǔ)要帶理說(shuō)
家長(zhǎng)覺(jué)得越來(lái)越弄不懂孩子，往往自己很快樂(lè)的時(shí)候，因?yàn)橐痪湓捇蛘咭患∈隆暗米铩绷撕⒆樱屝〖一镒兊貌婚_(kāi)心，再或者，您明明是想讓小家伙開(kāi)心點(diǎn)，卻弄巧成拙，反倒讓他哭起了鼻子。開(kāi)心話能消除孩子心里的不痛快，而一家人分享開(kāi)心更能增添家庭的凝聚力，不過(guò)，如何讓開(kāi)心話有趣而又意味深長(zhǎng)卻并非易事。
有位父親看書時(shí)太困，睡著了，連眼鏡都沒(méi)來(lái)得及摘。醒來(lái)后，女兒?jiǎn)査�，為什么睡覺(jué)時(shí)還戴眼鏡，這位父親靈機(jī)一動(dòng)，詼諧地說(shuō)：“爸爸做夢(mèng)也在看書，不戴眼鏡看不清字呀!”而有位媽媽在兒子考試考砸后，一邊講笑話開(kāi)導(dǎo)他，一邊告訴他“失敗是成功之母”的道理。寓理于趣的回答，使孩子潛移默化地接受了有益的教育。
憂心話語(yǔ)要變通說(shuō)
孩子讓家長(zhǎng)憂心、煩心的事情不少，如何將憂心話語(yǔ)變通說(shuō)可是一門學(xué)問(wèn)。因?yàn)�，說(shuō)得好能使孩子改變壞習(xí)慣，得到好心境;說(shuō)得不好會(huì)引起孩子的逆反心理，甚至變成孩子的“心脖。
如果孩子成績(jī)下滑了，您應(yīng)該先分析一下原因，然后再有針對(duì)性地和孩子交談，讓他明白您的憂心與關(guān)心，而不是責(zé)罵和訓(xùn)斥。如果是“小霸王”，您可以讓他試著和別的小朋友交換玩具、零食，他一旦感觸到友誼和分享?yè)Q來(lái)更多的東西和快樂(lè)，自然會(huì)改掉這個(gè)陋習(xí)。對(duì)于一些不適合直接同孩子當(dāng)面說(shuō)的話題，可采取留紙條、寫信、向孩子推薦一篇文章、一本好書等方式進(jìn)行溝通�？傊议L(zhǎng)間接式的變通做法，既可以表達(dá)自己的想法，孩子也比較容易接受。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽(tīng)陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長(zhǎng)生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí)，而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重�？上В蠖鄶�(shù)人的愛(ài)情，都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài)，但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛(ài)上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不www.lookme-vision.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車?yán)�，與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué)，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng)，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生，而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么，不知道是誰(shuí)，不知道如何去愛(ài)，也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人�？墒�，這種等待，就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過(guò)很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài)，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂(lè)的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性，就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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